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This is another incredible and detailed study that we hope you will find both enjoyable and enlightening. Grab your Bible and prepare to learn some amazing things regarding the deep, lasting, true happiness that only the Lord can deliver.
– G. W. Craig
The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.
Based on the above statement, what are we supposed to dwell upon?
Philippians 4:4-8 reads thusly…
4 Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice!
5 Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near.
6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
8 Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.
New American Standard Bible 1995 – Emphasis Added.
Begin and end each day with gratitude.
Next, please refer to 1 Peter 1:3-8 in your Bible. Are we rejoicing in fellowship? What about regular church attendance at a Bible-teaching church? Are we applying what we have learned to each circumstance? Are we reacting emotionally or responding thoughtfully – are we thinking (as we are supposed to) instead of emoting? Get a handle on these things first, and your life will change.
Happiness is not a reward, it is a mental attitude, a choice in the mind of every believer, it is a consequence of taking in doctrine, daily.
Proverbs 3:13, “How blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gains understanding.”
Bible doctrine gives the believer a capacity for a happy life. It is the mind alone that makes one miserable or happy – it is not a person, place, or condition.
Proverbs 23:7a, “For as he thinks within himself, so he is.” (Don’t hesitate to post this verse (and others) on your refrigerator door where everyone can see, somewhere in your vehicle, at your desk (home, work, or both) on your nightstand, on your bathroom mirror…)
Happiness is a mindset, a lifestyle. A happy person is not afraid to fail, not afflicted by unhappy people or circumstances. Happiness is the capacity to be relaxed about misfortunes, both during these times and when you come out of the misfortune. If you weren’t happy during those times, you have given the misfortune power over you. So, ask yourself during these times, “Who is in control, me or my misfortunes? Me or the Holy Spirit?”
Principles of happiness:
- Happiness depends on the quality of your thoughts.
- True happiness is a mental attitude of contentment, regardless of circumstance.
- Do not worry about things beyond your control. Happiness requires problems which keep us aware of the reality of this world. When problems arise, stay calm. When you are running late, stay calm. When you stay calm, you stay in control. When you stay in control of your emotions, even in stressful situations, it is then you appreciate happiness – even more the Holy Spirit in you.
- Happiness is not in getting what we want, it is in appreciating what we already have. How rich we are, even with minimal possessions, because of Who and what we know – that’s the real treasure in life. Enjoying life by appreciation means recognizing all that we possess in a constant mindset of gratitude.
So, the key to happiness is recognizing and appreciating Bible doctrine in us, the Holy Spirit in us, and living each minute with assurance and calmness. Happiness is a mental attitude of thankful appreciation, continuously. Peace in your soul overflows into life, and this is what others will see in you – soul-life, soul-happiness, a soul in control of emotions, a peaceful soul. When you truly learn this, it is like a light turned on in your soul, and this is what people notice and what sets you apart.
Conversely, uncontrolled emotional mood swings are what people see when the mind and soul are unstable. So one must take control of the soul by taking and keeping control of the thinking. We must always think first. Always.
One does not pursue happiness, one enjoys happiness, because one is at peace with God. God is always happy. If you are not happy, then your emotions are in control, not the Holy Spirit, and it’s time to change your thinking habits. Calmness means you are Holy Spirit-assured, which makes you self-assured. When things don’t go right, don’t react with emotion, respond with Truth, with thinking, with evaluating the situation and dealing with it for what it is.
Be patient and kind. Getting ahold of our emotions is difficult because emotions are powerful. They want to be in charge of your mind. They want you to give them the reins of your thinking-life.
To quote a small, green being when asked if the “dark side” is stronger, “… no. Quicker, easier, more seductive.” And that assessment couldn’t be any more accurate. He would go on to say later, “Anger, fear, aggression, the dark side are they. Easily they flow. Quick to join you in a fight.” Something to keep in mind, no?
When the Holy Spirit is in control of your thinking, you are in control of your emotions. The Holy Spirit doesn’t doubt, doesn’t fear, doesn’t panic. When you are calm and thinking straight, you are listening to the still small voice of God the Holy Spirit. This is why ecstatic worship and emotional reaction are not spiritual. Being happy is wonderful. Feeling appreciative is natural. Laugh and be happy, cry and be happy, but don’t make decisions based on how you feel. Each life-circumstance can lead to an emotional reaction, but circumstances should lead to a thoughtful response. Reactions are emotion-based (immature). Responses are thought-based (mature).
Perfect happiness possesses God’s happiness – a divine viewpoint, which comes from Bible doctrine stored in the soul and lived in the life of the believer. Pseudo-happiness is satan’s attempt to counterfeit true happiness. Stimulation, inordinate ambition, self-indulgence, instant gratification and lust are all empty, counterfeit forms of happiness. They are all a frantic search of the soul for true happiness, but in all the wrong places.